Valentine’s Day is probably one of the most commercialized holidays of the year. During the weeks before, we get bombarded with the obligation to make this day the most romantic experience our loved ones have ever seen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And make no mistake, she will indeed have high expectations. If you think you can impress her by just giving a thoughtful gift somewhere during the day and that you will be set for some A-grade lovemaking, you are dead wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In fact, if you want to sweep her off her feet and get life-changing sex at the end of the day, you will need to step things up and make valentines day a romantic & memorable experience.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If you really don\u2019t have time and just want a great gift, you should definitely check out\u00a0this top 25 list\u00a0of must-have Valentine\u2019s gifts<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, if you are looking for romantic valentines day ideas<\/strong> that will give her an unforgettable experience and that guarantee sex at the end, follow the 5 easy steps below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tell her a couple of weeks before the 14th of February that you will be arranging everything and that more details will follow closer to the date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You taking the lead during Valentine’s Day is a great idea as it actually serves two purposes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Firstly, women love to be surprised and treated like a goddess. You taking care of the general planning of the day itself will already mean a lot to her. She will feel that you care enough that you are willing to do the extra effort to make this day special for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n No matter whether you go big and have a full agenda of romantic activities, or whether you keep it small and centered around a few key things, the gesture itself will score points big time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Secondly, aligning upfront that you will guide the day will avoid any overlap in planning. For example, it would be a shame if you arranged to cook her an exquisite dinner, yet at the same time, she made a reservation at your favorite restaurant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your wife or girlfriend will also want to do something for you on Valentine\u2019s Day. Yet men, in general, seem to care less about the experience compared to women. So it is perfectly fine that she focuses on finding the right gift while you plan the rest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s right. Whatever you do, don\u2019t tell her any details about the day or any planned activities just yet. You will want to spread it out by telling her more details will follow closer to the date. She will be dying of curiosity and love every second of it. The excitement of the surprise ahead will again be an important part of the overall experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, you will need to give her some guidance a few days before. Why this is so important you will read in step 4<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n Although most men are able to come up with romantic Valentine’s Day ideas for their wife or partner, they often forget that there are many elements surrounding the day that actually require thorough planning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As a result, many are often faced with issues in the eleventh hour that have the potential to ruin the entire day. If you don\u2019t want to face last-minute issues, you will need to plan your Valentine’s Day ideas in detail ahead.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Here are some key things you will want to think about:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t underestimate the time needed to do proper research. You might have a romantic Valentine’s Day idea, such as an activity she would love to do or even the perfect Valentine\u2019s gift, but that doesn\u2019t mean you will be able to find a supplier immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Start your search well in advance to avoid the last-minute realization that your plan is not going to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In case you have smaller children, you will need to foresee a solution. If you think you can have a romantic dinner in the kitchen with the baby in the next room you are just being plainly na\u00eff.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Truly enable this day to be about just the two of you and find a babysitter or ask your parents-in-law to take care of the kids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n PRO TIP:<\/strong> If you want to go the extra mile, you can even collude with her boss to free up her day. But only tell her the day before, or even on the morning of the 14th<\/sup> for extra effect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Although Valentine’s Day will fall on a Thursday in 2019, it doesn\u2019t mean you cannot plan any activity. For those who are unable to take a day off, even smaller gestures such as a romantic walk from or to the restaurant can already do a lot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, if you want to do an activity that requires a reservation, make sure you do this sooner rather than later. It\u2019s Valentine’s Day for everyone, so you\u2019d better book fast before someone else has the same great idea as you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n PRO TIP :<\/strong> If your budget allows it, go for a romantic getaway. Even if it is just a quick escape from the city for one night in a small cottage, it will make the day even more memorable and romantic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Building on the previous point, if you were thinking of taking her to her favorite restaurant, you should probably make the reservation months in advance, and it should be the first call you make on your activity list.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, there is no dire need to take her to a restaurant. You can also surprise her by cooking her an exquisite homemade meal. Especially if you don\u2019t get around to doing the cooking too often, she will appreciate the gesture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Just don\u2019t forget that also this requires thorough preparation. Do you have all the equipment? Do you need to ask your mom for help or advice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n PRO TIP :<\/strong> If you are having trouble deciding between a restaurant or cooking for yourself, ask yourself the following question: do you already go out to dinner often? If the answer is no, she will really love the opportunity to go out and might even be disappointed if it doesn\u2019t happen. If you already eat out regularly, then a home-cooked meal will score great points.<\/p>\n\n\n\n On paper, you might have a great plan, including several romantic Valentine’s Day ideas and activities, but don\u2019t forget to plan how you will travel from one to another. Will there be sufficient time, even if there are unforeseen traffic jams or other delays? Does the venue offer free parking space, or is it better to take public transportation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n In the end, Valentine’s Day is about romance, so creating a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom will be highly appreciated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She will absolutely love some nice (scented) candles to create the perfect lighting around the room, while some romantic music could set the mood. Top this with some massage oil to treat her to a relaxing massage, and you are fully set for the perfect ending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n PRO TIP :<\/strong> Surprise her even more by hiring a maid to come and clean your home on Valentine’s Day morning. She will not only love to return to a spick and span house but also the idea of not having to clean herself will be a more than welcome gift.<\/p>\n\n\n This is probably the most stressful part for most men. They realize that the expectations are high so the pressure to find the perfect gift can lead to stress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, let me start by giving you some great news: women will love the fact that you have planned an experience around the day and not just limit yourself to Valentine’s gifts. So, with part of the expectations already met, there is less pressure to focus on the gift itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That being said, you, of course, can\u2019t show up empty-handed…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Finding the perfect romantic Valentine’s gifts can be daunting, and honestly, it does depend a lot on personal factors. However, there are five categories of gifts that have proven to be successful<\/strong> specifically for Valentine’s Day:<\/p>\n\n\n\n For our article \u201cHow to find great gifts for women<\/strong><\/a>\u201c, we did extensive research among 2000 women<\/strong> and found that 76% would love to receive a gift that is either personalized or that has sentimental value.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The easier of the two is personalization. The research showed that adding the first letter of her name or her zodiac sign already has a significantly higher value than the same item without any customization. In case you don\u2019t have any specific object in mind, we collected the most original personalized gifts of 2022<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sentimental gifts actually go one step further and require more effort as you will need to do a bit more digging to identify a specific memory that holds a special place in her heart. A personalized gift would be an engraved necklace, while a sentimental version would be a necklace with a locket holding a picture of you two during that trip she loved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n BONUS:<\/strong> Your efforts will be rewarded as our data showed she is 3 times more likely<\/strong> to share the fact that she received a sentimental gift with her friends and colleagues, increasing your image as a thoughtful person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, you can also combine both… Our personal favorite personalized AND sentimental Valentine’s Day gift idea is definitely this illustrated love book<\/strong><\/a>. The website allows you to use thousands of illustrations to create your own book. So why don\u2019t you make an illustrated collection of your most romantic and meaningful moments together? The moment you first met, your first kiss, that trip to Rome, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If this one is a bit too much for you, you can find more inspiration in our top 10 sentimental gift ideas<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Women very much enjoy products to pamper themselves, as well as comfort and sleep-related gifts. This is a rather safe bet and so a good direction if your relationship is still new and brittle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can go for a relaxing spa treatment, but also pampering products such as scrubs, body lotions, and serums are highly appreciated. If you decide to go for the latter, look for gift baskets rather than single products. She will love the fact that she can try out different treatments and scents, while you smartly increase your chances of liking at least one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A great example is this ultimate essential oils collection<\/strong><\/a> by Aromatherapy Associates. It holds 10 different oils that she can use in the bath and shower. Or… that can be used for a sensual massage at the end of your Valentine’s date if you\u2019re catching my drift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or have a look at these romantic Valentine’s Day pampering gift ideas<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Every girl loves flowers, and there is no better occasion than Valentine’s Day to treat your lovely little lady to a beautiful bouquet. Whether it is at the start of the day, the beginning of your date night, or at the end of the night in the bedroom, flowers are a no-miss!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Although you can probably not go wrong with a lavish bouquet of red roses<\/a><\/strong> for Valentine’s Day, our recommendation would be to go for a brilliant bouquet with Stargazer Lilies<\/a><\/strong>. With this arrangement, you will stand out as all the other men will buy long-stemmed roses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As stargazer lilies or roses could be pricey, especially on Valentine’s Day, it could also be a good idea to order her favorite flowers or another beautiful flower with deeper meaning. If you would like to learn more about choosing the perfect flowers for a girl, you can read our 10 best tips in this article.<\/p>\n\n\n\n PRO TIP:<\/strong> If you decide to have your flowers delivered to her office, make sure you deliver them with a vase. There is nothing more awkward for a girl than looking for one when her colleagues are watching. <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
#Step 1<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Surprise Her by Taking the Lead<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t forget to build the tension!<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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There is Less Time Than You Think, Prepare in Advance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Research or insights needed<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Freeing up the day or evening<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Plan activities on Valentine’s Day<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. Choose the best Dinner option<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Make sure you know how to get around<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Prepare for the perfect ending<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Find the Right Romantic Gift for Her<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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1. Personalized & Sentimental Gifts<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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